Facebook for the dead
Is Facebook’s offer to “memorialize” the accounts of dead users creepy or thoughtful?
What should happen to your Facebook page when you die?
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Facebook has just made it easier to stay friends with those who have passed on, allowing family or loved ones to request that a dead user’s account be “memorialized”—frozen except for the Wall, where “friends” can leave comments and share memories. Facebook pushed out the feature after a new “reconnect” tool started suggesting that users get back in contact with deceased friends, among others. Are Facebook accounts for the dead a good idea?
Hooray for virtual immortality: “Sounds like a good idea to me,” says Harry McCracken in Technologizer. I like the idea that when we die, we won’t “disappear altogether from the online world.” Then again, it “may sound creepy,” but I sometimes keep dead friends in my address book, too, as “little reminders of our friendship.”
“Facebook for the Departed”
Facebook’s late to the wake: “Online memorials are nothing new,” says Mary Elizabeth Williams in Salon. Along with MyDeathSpace and the “Second Life–type Virtual Heaven,” there are “countless” sites memorializing individual people. Still, given the site’s 300 million users, the Grim Reaper is surely a much more “frequent visitor to Facebook.” So “be careful what profile pic you post or what your friends write on your wall—it might be your last enduring image.”
“Facebook friends to the end”
Facebook now needs a ‘living will’ option: “For the record, Facebook—please delete me when I die,” says Steven Hodson in The Inquisitr. When I’m gone, the only people I want remembering me are those “I have known in real life,” not in a virtual social network. “There is an endpoint to everything in our world and our presence on the web is no different.”
“To whom it may concern: Please delete my Facebook account upon my death”
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Posted by Sophie Phipps, Wednesday, October 28, 2009, 11:24 am Deadbook?
Posted by Viola, Wednesday, October 28, 2009, 8:45 pm I actually kind of like that idea. The family of one of my recently deceased friends left her Facebook up so we can still post on her wall. Its a nice/sad reminder of her, but all of her friends like having it there. A Deadbook props for that name, above! is a nice idea only a little creepy.
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